There have been a lot of times in the life of a Delhi female when males have found them obnoxiously confident(The male complex is a whole different post!) and people (Males/Females) from around the world have looked at them with raised eyebrows and shunned them for being confident about their own selves.
Knowing what is right and what is wrong , what one wants and what one would never accept is a quality tough to have and should be inculcated in every single human being on earth - the quality has no fancy name it's just called "knowing ones own self and comes from deep intellectual thought and resting and being comfortable with what you are!
I have met a fair share of people to understand how they operate , their nuances , their insecurities , their fetishes, the selfishness for their fetishes and the sins they are willing to commit under covers..!I have seen the best of souls slip when none are looking , I have seen the silliest of characters joked about by everyone stand straight and not bend when going gets tough and hence I don't judge people on their covering , I see their eyes move!
I love Delhi and so does my sister , We are born to a maharashtrian father and a punjabi mother but we are absolutely hardcore Delhi-ites and regardless of the popular opinion about Delhi females we love every cent of the city that has seeped into us.
We have been touched at inappropriate places in the most inappropriate places , we have been shouted at for being wrong even when we were right , we have been side lined in a board room full of men even after proving ourselves , we have been threatened by people on motorbikes when we display flawless driving skills and apart from all these big things that happen to females all the time, the toughest that us females face, is the perennial doubt on peoples faces when we tell them we know how things are done! When we do , We KNOW how things are done - we are willing to learn for we also know we dont know enough!
People at various times have told us how Delhi-ites have a pinch of arrogance , us Delhi-ites think that we know everything , we have a body language that threatens. I , and on behalf of my sister and all the other females who relate to what i have written , Please live our life in this city , live our hurt and live our pain , live with men who come from all parts of the country into this city and make living a little difficult for us , especially when their egos are hurt. Live our lives of walking shoulder to shoulder with men for we are as smart and still take the brunt of being told we arent! When you do all of those things - come back to us , either you wont or you would have understood why we are so aggressively designed , when you have understood that if we dont be a little aggressive we'll have the world eat us up and after being adequately educated we have built ourselves some self respect and hence giving it up is obviously not an option.
Either you wont or you would have understood - If you'll be standing I promise you my last penny we shall bow down , for people who have built their self respect bit by bit, are also the ones who know how to respect others who have some!
Till then , Heya Ladies ! You all are doing hell of a job ! Do NOT change a thing !
Love
Knowing what is right and what is wrong , what one wants and what one would never accept is a quality tough to have and should be inculcated in every single human being on earth - the quality has no fancy name it's just called "knowing ones own self and comes from deep intellectual thought and resting and being comfortable with what you are!
I have met a fair share of people to understand how they operate , their nuances , their insecurities , their fetishes, the selfishness for their fetishes and the sins they are willing to commit under covers..!I have seen the best of souls slip when none are looking , I have seen the silliest of characters joked about by everyone stand straight and not bend when going gets tough and hence I don't judge people on their covering , I see their eyes move!
I love Delhi and so does my sister , We are born to a maharashtrian father and a punjabi mother but we are absolutely hardcore Delhi-ites and regardless of the popular opinion about Delhi females we love every cent of the city that has seeped into us.
We have been touched at inappropriate places in the most inappropriate places , we have been shouted at for being wrong even when we were right , we have been side lined in a board room full of men even after proving ourselves , we have been threatened by people on motorbikes when we display flawless driving skills and apart from all these big things that happen to females all the time, the toughest that us females face, is the perennial doubt on peoples faces when we tell them we know how things are done! When we do , We KNOW how things are done - we are willing to learn for we also know we dont know enough!
People at various times have told us how Delhi-ites have a pinch of arrogance , us Delhi-ites think that we know everything , we have a body language that threatens. I , and on behalf of my sister and all the other females who relate to what i have written , Please live our life in this city , live our hurt and live our pain , live with men who come from all parts of the country into this city and make living a little difficult for us , especially when their egos are hurt. Live our lives of walking shoulder to shoulder with men for we are as smart and still take the brunt of being told we arent! When you do all of those things - come back to us , either you wont or you would have understood why we are so aggressively designed , when you have understood that if we dont be a little aggressive we'll have the world eat us up and after being adequately educated we have built ourselves some self respect and hence giving it up is obviously not an option.
Either you wont or you would have understood - If you'll be standing I promise you my last penny we shall bow down , for people who have built their self respect bit by bit, are also the ones who know how to respect others who have some!
Till then , Heya Ladies ! You all are doing hell of a job ! Do NOT change a thing !
Love
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Powerful writing AK, And oh how you touched the right nerve.. Bravo!
ReplyDeleteThanks Shweta !
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